Maddy - the head guru, therapist, owner, etc of The Journey was there and she has the best analogy for this issues. Gadianton Robbers. They're totally like a gang. And what's the only way to get rid of Gadianton Robbers? Love them. Teach them the truth. That Maddy is pure genius.
This is Kishkumen. A leader and co-founder of the Gadianton robbers, he was a deadly assassin who killed Pahoran son of Pahoran as he sat on the judgement seat. He planned to murder Helaman, son of Helaman but is slain instead by one of Helaman's servants. I love this picture, I think it's exactly what he looked like in real life.
President Hinckley spoke just after 9/11.
He said, "The Book of Mormon speaks of the Gadianton robbers, a vicious, oath-bound, and secret organization bent on evil and destruction. In their day they did all in their power, by whatever means available, to bring down the Church, to woo the people with sophistry, and to take control of the society. We see the same thing in the present situation."
The same can be said for our current situation ... we are facing adversary at every turn.
President Hinckley in the same article said, "Occasions of this kind pull us up sharply to a realization that life is fragile, peace is fragile, civilization itself is fragile. The economy is particularly vulnerable. We have been counseled again and again concerning self-reliance, concerning debt, concerning thrift. So many of our people are heavily in debt for things that are not entirely necessary. When I was a young man, my father counseled me to build a modest home, sufficient for the needs of my family, and make it beautiful and attractive and pleasant and secure. He counseled me to pay off the mortgage as quickly as I could so that, come what may, there would be a roof over the heads of my wife and children. I was reared on that kind of doctrine. I urge you as members of this Church to get free of debt where possible and to have a little laid aside against a rainy day."
We're loving Dave Ramsey lately too, the idea of being debt free is so exciting! Maybe someday we'll pay off our mortgage ...
Anyway, back to the original point of this post. We officially started proctor care this week. We're filling in for a family and taking care of their 2 boys, Dylan and Jeremy. We get our first actual proctor boy next Monday and we're super excited. I love that we have great examples to help us through this exciting and kind of scary time in our lives.
#1 - Our own parents and families. We have awesome parents and awesome brothers and sisters who are all great parents.
#2 - Great friends and co-workers who provide great examples to us. I love that Maddy didn't hesitate to bring up the Book of Mormon at work, and that she's obviously thought of this analogy many times. I love that the Book of Mormon goes right along with our currents lives and is the most awesome tool to help us deal with latter-day issues.
We may be getting another boy who has been physically abused by his father. Lucas mentioned that one of the reasons he's excited to be a proctor parent is so that he can show these boys what a good man looks like. That good fathers and male examples exist. I love that. He's the best husband and he'll be the best dad and best proctor dad in the world, I'm sure of it.
President Hinckley talk from the Liahona, January 2002 The Times in Which We Live